“Who art thou that judgest another
man’s servant? to his own master he standeth or falleth. Yea, he shall be
holden up: for God is able to make him stand.”
(Rom.14:4)
It would seem that as Christians we
waste a great deal of spiritual and emotional time and energy on matters that
are not are only outside our realm of expertise, but also outside our realm of
responsibility. This is especially true in our dealings with other believers. We’re
not satisfied to indulge ourselves on personal spiritual guilt trips (yes, I do
mean indulge ourselves), we usually find it necessary to entice friends and
loved ones to make the journey with us.
Most of us go way beyond provoking
one another to good works (Heb.10:24), to poking one another every time we
sense a pending lapse in grace, or less than ferocious zeal for God. As the
verse in Romans indicates, legitimate concern for the spiritual wellbeing of a
fellow believer can easily morph into judgmental bellowing, an activity that
doesn’t help either them or us.
In
the final analysis, we’re usurping the authority of their Master…and ours. And,
besides, as the verse says, only God is
able to make someone stand. He is the Great Stabilizer. We may be able to get someone back on his or
her feet temporarily, but we don’t
have what it takes to produce permanent
steadiness and stability. That requires supernatural intervention (Acts 3:1-8).
And, if that’s the case, the sooner we get out of the way, the sooner it’ll get
done.